What to Expect
Similarities and differences between normal crying and colic
Because infants cry more in their first 3 months than at any
other time in their lives, it is often difficult to tell the difference between
colic and
expected crying behavior. Both types of crying
gradually increase, peaking at about 6 to 8 weeks of age. Most crying episodes
occur in the late afternoon and evening hours, although the timing may vary.
The length and intensity of crying episodes also may change from one day to the
next.
The difference between colic and normal crying behavior is
related to the frequency, duration, and intensity of crying. Babies with colic
typically follow a "3" pattern: they cry for more than 3 hours a day at least 3
days a week for at least 3 consecutive weeks. A colicky baby cries very loudly,
sometimes piercingly, and often continuously. During a colic episode, babies
may clench their fists and stiffen their stomach and legs when crying hardest.
Some babies arch their backs, while others pull up their legs to their
stomach.
Most babies with typical crying behavior are soothed and will cry
less when they are held, fed, and given attention. But babies with colic are
not easily soothed after they start crying, and their episodes generally last
longer than expected.
Colic is usually worst when babies are around 6 to 8 weeks of age
and goes away on its own between 8 and 14 weeks of age. Approximately 30 out of
100 colicky babies continue to have colicky behavior up to 4 months of
age.1
Other problems that can cause crying
By definition, colic is not caused by pain or discomfort. Most
likely, your baby's crying is normal. But health problems or injuries can cause
a baby to cry or make a colicky baby's crying worse. Learn ways to tell the
difference between normal colic and
signs
of a medical problem. For example, a baby may cry more when he or she
has a
digestion problem such as
milk
protein intolerance or
milk
sugar intolerance. Some mothers also say they notice their baby's crying
gets worse after they have had
certain foods or drinks and then
breast-feed. Some foods may affect breast milk, such
as garlic, broccoli, fresh fruits, and caffeine. They may contribute to
intestinal gas or other digestive problems in the baby.
Colic and the caregivers
You are not to blame for your child's colic. It is common to
sometimes feel frightened, anxious, or frustrated, especially when your baby
will not stop crying no matter what you do. Colic is a normal—and
temporary—condition that gradually improves, beginning at around 2 months of
age.
If your child has colic, it is not because of poor
parenting skills. Your baby may have fewer colicky
symptoms, though, if you take good
care
of yourself so that you feel more relaxed. Babies often feel more tense
when you are anxious, leading to worse crying episodes.
Talk to your health professional before giving your baby any
medicines or using
unproven methods to treat colic.