Common Concerns
Speech and language delays
Speech and language difficulties are estimated to occur in about
6% of children.1 Mild and temporary speech delays can
occur in some children. And some children learn new words faster than others
do. But if your child is not saying words by 18 months, or can say fewer than
50 words by 24 months, talk to your doctor. All children with a speech delay
should have their hearing tested.
Keep in mind that many different factors determine a child's
speech development. Be aware of the
common misconceptions about what causes speech and
language delays, such as laziness or developmental differences between boys and
girls. Even if some of these factors contribute to a child's speaking slightly
later than others of the same age, they are not the cause of significant speech
delays. True delays are related to developmental or health issues, such as
hearing loss or a family history of speech and language delay.
Red flags for speech and language developmental delays
are generally based on established speech and language milestones. Talk to your
health professional any time you have concerns. It is critical to identify
speech and language delays early and rule out any underlying conditions, such
as difficulty hearing. Early diagnosis allows health professionals to recommend
treatments that can help prevent long-term problems.
Behavioral issues
While they learn and master new language skills, children
sometimes talk in ways that are demanding or impolite. For example, a child may
say "Give me!" when he or she wants a toy. Often this seemingly bad behavior is
the result of children's inability to find the words that fit their feelings,
or they are simply repeating what is being said around them. Gently remind your
child to use an appropriate voice and manners, and consistently model polite
speech and behavior.
Some parents think that their child is constantly talking or
chattering. This is a child's way of practicing. It is not necessary for
parents to listen and respond to everything a talkative child says, but don't
completely tune out your chatterer either. Singing and dancing with your child
and playing music or reading stories geared toward children will help your
child learn to listen and to express himself or herself.
Normal mistakes
Most children make developmentally appropriate
“mistakes” when they first learn to talk. For example,
children commonly mispronounce words, such as saying "pasghetti" for
"spaghetti." As children listen to other people, they often correct their
mistakes. They learn to say words clearly and use grammar correctly through
practice.