Caregiver Tip No. 3: Don't Do It Alone
Some caregivers live under the impression that they are the only
available source of help. However, there are often other sources of assistance
available that can make your caregiving easier. If you want to be a good
caregiver, know where to find help when you need it. The more support you have,
the more successful you are likely to be. Services that may be useful to
caregivers include the following:
Respite care may be the most important
service for caregivers. Respite services provide someone who will stay with the
person while you get out of the house for a few hours. If the person you are
caring for needs routine medical care, you may be able to arrange to have the
person stay in a nursing home for a few days while you get away for a
break.
Adult day centers are "drop-off" sites where
a person who does not need individual supervision can stay during the day. This
service is usually offered during working hours and may or may not be available
on weekends. Meals, personal care services, and social activities are
provided.
Adult foster care or board-and-care homes are private homes where older adults
receive around-the-clock personal care, supervision, and meals. Some states
require board-and-care homes to be licensed.
Nursing homes generally have two levels of
care. Intermediate care includes assistance with using the toilet, dressing,
and personal care for people for people who do not have serious medical
conditions. Skilled nursing care is usually for people who have just come from
the hospital or for others who have medical conditions that require more
intensive nursing care. Some facilities have special units for people with
dementia.
Hospice programs provide social, personal,
and medical services for terminally ill patients who wish to spend their
remaining time at home or in a less formal environment than that of a hospital
or nursing home.
Support groups give you an opportunity to
discuss problems or concerns about caregiving with other caregivers.
To learn whether these services are available in your community,
look under "Senior Citizen Services" in the Yellow Pages.