Symptoms
Depression in a child or teen may occur
suddenly or develop gradually. Your child may seem more irritable than sad or
may feel bored or hopeless. It is common for others to notice that a depressed
child's body movements are slow, restless, or agitated. Your child may be
self-critical or feel that others are unfairly critical of him or her.
The symptoms of depression are often subtle at first. It can be hard to
recognize that symptoms may be connected and that your child might have
depression.
Children who are depressed may have the following
symptoms:3, 4
- Irritability
- Temper
tantrums
- Unexplained aches and pains, such as headaches or stomach
pain
- Difficulty thinking and making decisions
- Trouble
sleeping, or sleeping too much
- Changes in eating habits that lead
to weight gain or loss or not making expected weight gains
- Low
self-esteem
- Feelings of guilt and hopelessness
- Constant
tiredness or lack of energy
- Social withdrawal, such as lack of
interest in friends
- Thinking about death or feeling suicidal
It's important to watch for
warning signs of suicide in your child or teen. These
signs may change with age. Warning signs of suicide in children and teens may
include preoccupation with death or suicide or a recent breakup of a
relationship.
Many children who are depressed have symptoms of
anxiety, such as worrying too much or fearing
separation from a parent. Sometimes these symptoms appear before depression is
diagnosed.
Other less common symptoms may occur in severely
depressed children, such as hearing voices that aren't there (hallucinations) or having false but firmly held
beliefs (delusions). Hallucinations are more common in young
children, while delusions are more common in teens.5
Telling
the
difference between normal moodiness and symptoms of depression can be
difficult. Occasional feelings of sadness or irritability are normal. They
allow the child to process grief or cope with the challenges of life. For
example, grieving (bereavement) is a normal response to loss, such as the
death of a family member or even the death a pet, loss of a friendship, or
parents' divorce. After a severe loss, a child may remain sad for a longer
period of time. But when these emotions do not go away or begin to interfere
with the young person's life, the child may develop signs of a mood disorder
such as depression or
dysthymic disorder (long-term, mild depression), which
requires treatment.
Some children who are first diagnosed with
depression are later diagnosed with bipolar disorder. 6 Children or teens with bipolar disorder have extreme mood
swings between depression and bouts of
mania (very high energy, agitation, or irritability).
Depression can have symptoms that are similar to those caused by
other
conditions.
It can be difficult to distinguish
bipolar disorder from depression. It is common for
children with bipolar disorder to first be diagnosed with only depression and
later to be diagnosed with bipolar disorder after a first manic episode.
Although depression is part of the condition, bipolar disorder requires
different treatment than depression alone. Like depression, bipolar disorder
runs in families, so be sure to tell your health professional if your child has
a family history of bipolar disorder. (For more information on bipolar
disorder, see the topic
Bipolar Disorder in Children and Teens.)