These stories are based on information gathered from health
professionals and consumers. They may be helpful as you make important health
decisions.
Marvin, age 57: A while back it began getting
more difficult for me to have erections. For my partner and me, sex is a very
important part of our relationship. We are not yet ready to give this up. So we
talked with our doctor. I tried one of these new medications. I know it's a
little expensive, but we are willing to spend the money to be able to continue
having sex.
William, age 47: When I began to have a
problem getting an erection, I was pretty upset. I went right to my doctor, and
he gave me a medication to try. It worked all right for me, but he also
suggested I talk about this with my wife. When we talked, I discovered she was
not all that concerned about having sex as long as I gave her lots of loving
attention. Finding other ways to say “I love you” has been important for both
of us.
Carlita, age 26: My partner was having trouble
getting an erection. The doctor could find nothing physically wrong with him.
The doctor suggested we try counseling and that my partner take a medication
that will help him get an erection. Although we weren't sure we liked the idea
of counseling, my partner and I talked it over, and we went ahead and did
both.
Nickolas, age 68: My partner and I discussed
my problem of getting an erection. We decided we just like being together. We
discovered that having sex is not as important to us as it once was.