These stories are based on information gathered from health
professionals and consumers. They may be helpful as you make important health
decisions.
Rita, age 24: Raoul and I talked for a long
time about this pregnancy and what having a baby would mean to us. For personal
reasons, we would not choose to end the pregnancy if there was a problem with
the baby. So we decided not to do any prenatal diagnostic tests unless
something goes wrong. We trust that whether the baby is perfect or not, it will
be the baby (or babies!) that we are meant to have. Our families think that our
approach is a little unusual, but we are both comfortable with our
decision.
Rachel, age 33: I guess that you could call me
a bit of a worrywart. I just know that I will feel better if I can actually see
the baby on the monitor and see its little heart beating and have that one more
bit of information to reassure me that everything is okay.
Melissa, age 32: My sister had a healthy baby
boy last spring after spending most of her pregnancy worrying that everything
was not okay with the baby. She had an ultrasound that showed a cyst in the
baby's brain. The cyst went away, and her doctor said that they are really
common and almost never cause a problem, but the whole experience was really
stressful for her and her husband. At one point they even wondered if they
should end the pregnancy. So now that I'm pregnant, I feel torn. If there is a
problem, I think I would want to know, but a false alarm would be so stressful!
I think the worry would be worse for me and the baby than any problem.
Julie, age 25: I read a lot about prenatal
testing, including ultrasound, so I know what it can and can't show about the
baby. My doctor says that because of my age and our family histories, there is
very little chance that there are any problems with the baby (although we
understand that no one can ever be sure about this). So I know there really
isn't any reason to have the ultrasound ... but this is the only child we plan
to have, and I want to have the whole pregnancy experience, ultrasound and
all.