Newborns cry to communicate that they are hungry, wet, tired, too
warm, too cold, lonely, or otherwise uncomfortable. When you respond promptly
to these cries, you give your newborn confidence and a sense of security. Once
your baby's need is met, the crying usually stops.
Letting a newborn baby “cry it out” usually makes the situation worse
and the crying more intense. It is often more difficult and takes longer to
calm an extremely upset baby than one who has just started to cry.
However, some newborns cry for no apparent reason and can be
difficult to console. Typically, newborns have a fussy time of day, often
during the late afternoon to early evening when they are tired and unable to
relax. This crying is a way for your baby to release the tension that naturally
develops from a full day of stimulation. These episodes can last up to 2 to 3
hours. During this time, the baby needs extra attention. Realize that your
newborn may continue crying no matter how much comfort is given. Although this
behavior is normal, it can be very stressful for you, especially when you are
already feeling overwhelmed. If you can identify a pattern, it may help to
carry and hold your baby before the anticipated crying period and after it
begins. You can also plan for extra help. For example, a few times a week, have
a friend or relative come over and take over for you during the expected fussy
time.
The average amount of time a baby cries peaks at around 6 weeks of
age. These crying spells shorten as your baby's nervous system matures and as
you become better able to recognize and meet your newborn's needs.